In the process of rapid urbanization, China's grass-roots local society has accelerated the transformation to urban and rural society, and the daily life of farmers with families as the main body is unfolded between urban and rural areas. Different from the interpretation path of media centrism and urban centrism, the "home" is introduced into the research field of urban-rural communication relations. The interaction between home and new media makes the family become the communication subject and connecting medium between urban and rural areas. The furniture connecting urban and rural areas has the unity of entity and significance. It builds a two-way interactive bridge between urban and rural daily life through the media of home, and overcomes the helplessness of urban and rural communication under the path of media centrism. Under the background of urban and rural society and network society, the traditional rural daily life order has gradually disintegrated, and the progress and application of new media technology spread between urban and rural areas have reconstructed the media based urban and rural daily life order, providing the advocacy and vision enlightenment of communication science for the construction of a new urban-rural relationship pattern of urban-rural integration in the transition period.